The Legend of ‘Ellie’

Ellie worked in a multi-million-dollar company that made over 92 million dollars a year. She had a great job and was good at it. But Ellie noticed a problem. The company still ordered phone lines, and no one needed them. Because of the red tape and processes involved, no one wanted to take responsibility to […]

The Legend of Jo-Jo Merida

Jo-Jo Merida was a surgeon assistant at a general hospital. Jo-Jo was not just punctual, excellent and reliable. Jo- Jo was not only intelligent. Jo-Jo had a leadership quality everyone needs, but very few recognise. Jo-Jo is not a man who only does his job; he does the job that needs to be done. When […]

Dealing With Insecurity: Lessons From Brother Moses

Before you argue or claim that Moses of biblical times was not insecure, let’s unpack the many layers of Moses’ life that produced deep emotional wounds. Moses had been hidden from his birth; his voice was probably stifled every time he cried. This has a way of affecting any child and may have been the […]

COLD SMOKE

Just the other day, I prepared to take a shower. ‘Prepared’ is the focus here, because it’s winter in my part of the world and taking a bath in a cold room full of tiles, mirrors and glass is no easy feat- especially at night. First, you need to mentally prepare yourself. Then you must […]

DON’T BUILD YOUR DECISIONS ON EMOTIONS!

We often hear people say, ‘Follow your heart.’ While that sounds inspiring, it can also be one of the most misleading pieces of advice when making important life decisions. Emotions are powerful. They shape our experiences, deepen our relationships, and help us connect with others. They are an essential part of being human. However, emotions […]

The blessing of Stitches and a golden jacket.

My sonny dearest has a golden winter jacket. It has faithfully accompanied him through the years, through rough tumbles, strong winds, rainy days, sticky treats and juicy bits. It’s getting a little snug, but sonny won’t let it go. As I stepped out to ‘observe’ the washing line, which simply means wanting to see what […]

Lessons from a black bag and white space

White space is a blessing, a privilege many do not even know exists. Some are forced to pivot or make serious changes when grief, pain, sickness or loss come around, but you can pivot without loss or tragedy. Create white space and room to change on your own terms, and this is easy to do […]

Memoirs from a Lonely Street

No. 373 Honeythorne stood at the end of the street, just before the road curved towards the street gate that led into another street. Its numbers were askew, as though someone had tried to rip them apart but had failed. This was what drew my attention to wonder the name of the street this skewed […]

Walking With the Shepherd: Big Lessons from “Little Steps

Little Steps is a nursery school that came to the community library on an excursion while I was there. I usually love the little ones, but the last thing I wanted to hear was “Ring a Ring a Rosie” is being sung in the library. After going out into the sun for a few minutes, […]

I Just Can’t Quit!

“For the good that I would, I do not: but the evil which I would not, that I do.” — Paul the Apostle, Romans 7:19 Have you ever felt the frustration of doing the very thing you promised yourself you would never do again? The guilt settles quietly at first, then grows louder with every repetition. […]